Keeps gettin' better *smirks*

So, iata diferenta dintre mine si el. Amandoi ne aflam in aceeasi situatie eu acum, el anul trecut pe vremea asta. Dar uite cum gestionez eu lucrurile, spre deosebire de el.


El e un pesimist care se afunda tot mai mult in ganduri grele si gri.


Eu... well, postarea asta cuprinde exact cum vad eu lucrurile:

Success and failure can make you dance to their tunes if they wish to. How you combat it is up to you… So reach for the stars because even if you do fail, you will land on the moon.

Reach for the stars, even if you fail, you’ll land on the moon. There’s nothing special about that phrase. Some might have heard it before and others would say it’s a bit clichéd. But when you are 14 and uninspired in a maths lesson, a tiny A5 sized poster on the wall is enough to get you to give up the slouch, sit up straight and probably concentrate a bit more on what the teacher is saying.

I read that message on an A5 sized poster in my maths lesson when I was 14. 3 years on, and now, my subject choices couldn’t be any less related to maths. It’s amazing how when you are 14  and you think you know everything (or maybe you don’t) but suddenly one message on a piece of paper is enough to get you thinking in a more mature way. Despite what other people might say, I’ve always lived by the message: Reach for the stars, even if you fail, you’ll land on the moon. Today, if there’s something that has made me the person I am, it’s that single message.

Success is a fickle friend. Aim for it with one solitary arrow, and it will try to dodge you constantly. Aim for it with multiple consecutive arrows, mark my words, it will stay fixed where you want it to stay. I’m not a successful person. Of all of the things I’ve done till now, that success is measured only according to me. But it’s my belief that all of these little successes that I’ve had all my little life, will probably group together to make a bigger impact and maybe then I will really reach the stars.

A lot of people get bogged down by failure. A fairly successful person will feel that failure is a measure of how badly they’ve done. A very successful person will realise that failure is actually a reality check telling them where they’ve gone wrong. How you look at success is up to you but the difference between some people and the others is that some people look at failure as a cul de sac. The others look at failure as a cul de sac with tiny hole in the corner, through which they can squeeze themselves even if it means they have to force themselves through it several times.

My message for all of you is if you find that at some point in life, things aren’t going well for you, keep telling yourself that it will be okay because it is that thought that will actually make stuff better. If you are weighed down with failure, keep trying because maybe the success you gain from trying won’t be astronomical, but hey, it will be some success at least!

I leave you with this little anecdote that should get you thinking. Thomas A. Edison, inventor of the light bulb was experimenting with filaments for the light bulb to find the perfect one. After many tries a helper at his laboratory asked him to give up with the filaments because they had tried nearly 10,000 and they had failed. Edison replied : “I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.”

Sursa: http://socyberty.com/lifestyle-choices/reach-for-the-stars-even-if-you-fail-youll-land-on-the-moon/ 

Si inca ceva:

Life coach also gives advice for those person who failed. According to Wikipedia, “Failure refers to the state or condition of not meeting a desirable or intended objective, and may be viewed as the opposite of success.” We often experience failures in school, work and even at home. Failure teaches us things we can’t learn from any other way. Failure delivers unpleasant news, but should not be allowed to take up a permanent residence in our hearts.  It is easy to give up your dreams and goals in life when you face failure. Failure leads to lack of motivation and disappointment.  You sometimes wish to be somewhere else or someone else except where you are and who you are. However, you already knew that failure is just a stepping stone of success. If you fail a couple of times that doesn’t mean that you’re going to fail forever.  

Did you know that Thomas Edison was trying to invent the electrical bulb and failed more than a thousand times, but did he give up? If he did give up then were still eating dinners in the dark with a gas lamp or a candle. But he did not give up, in fact he didn’t fail, he discovered 1,000 ways how not to make a light bulb and only 1 way to make it work. This is an example of how to look at our failures, use the failed attempts to learn something like what does work and what does not in making your dreams a reality.

You need a big heart and a lot of courage and creativity in order to face your failures. So here are some words of wisdom in facing your failures to help you motivate and keep on trying in order to reach your goals.

Success only comes after sacrifice and constant pursuance or consistency. You need to work until we achieve success and never compare ourselves with others; we should compare ourselves with our previous performance.

You are a failure only when you quit. When people fail, most get disheartened and they start looking themselves as failures, not realizing that failing does not equal to failure.

Accept failure. By accepting failure we could go on and try again, maybe it will be better next time.

Be patient. It takes time to reach goals and dreams therefore, we need to be patient because we don’t expect miracles overnight.

Learn from your mistakes. We can learn from our failures and our mistakes, they are our greatest mentors, they taught us what we need not to do so it won’t happen again and change for the better.

Be flexible and learn to adapt the changes. When you fail, you don’t have to do the exact things you have done before failing, learn to adapt new things and changes that can give you different results.

Stop negative thinking. We do this quite often when we fail, if we think negatively it will pull us down. So you need to compose yourself and tell yourself that enough thinking about the negatives.

Have the courage to laugh at your own mistakes. Smiling after you fail will lessen the sadness and depression of getting a negative feedback. You need to have the courage to stand and become better next time.

Truth is, I'm still working on acquiring these notions.  But at least I'm doing something to lift myself up from the misery pool, instead of digging my own grave.


"Da,dar tu faci ceva."
"E un inceput."


His words to me.


Si inca:

Failure is not the end of a journey, as it only tests in life. Success is always available for one who thinks that life is a test.

Failure …. a word that we do not want to experience it, but it often comes close. A word that does not want us to meet, but often times we face.

Different faces of failure appeared. Targets are not met, the desire is not fulfilled, or never answered a prayer. Viewed from the perspective of the facts, the failure was bitter and even painful.

How much energy was released, the time has terkorbankan, all of which collapsed, but no positive results. All is definitely not something that can be perceived as a success that can be deferred where a smile when seeing his appearance.

The word “Success and Failure” is like a desperate man foods.Words that trigger the maxim “has a lot of salt” is a reference for those who had experienced through his life. Failure is a process many times to keberjayaan.

In life, many people who fail because they do not realize how close to success when they gave up. (Thomas A. Edison)

Thomas Edison is known from the first failure despite its success in making a lamp. People who succeed are those who want to change because people who succeed are willing to sacrifice body and soul to find a thousand ways to not fail.

Failure can not be repeated for the umpteenth time. They have a persistent determination to achieve what they wanted. As the proverb says that rafting rakitlah upstream, swim and then a mean sick sick first, then have fun. That maxim is best suited for the term Failure and Success.

“Do it repeatly.

The most important things is the road to success. Never stop on the failure to-1000 time, because the to-1001 time is the possibility of your success. If you quit, then you will regret it forever.

That’s called focusing on dreams, life goals or your dreams sendiri.Dan not underestimate your one or two steps, because without one or two steps, would not you have a thousand steps.

Grateful for what you have, because life is a beautiful gift from God.You must be sure that whatever is given by God. we are the best in all of us.

You will never realize that that was hairy caterpillar, now a beautiful butterfly butterflies flying here there. You also never realized that the cactus and thorny rose bushes are now beginning to expand its interest. Beautiful flowers on which rests a beautiful butterfly. That is the meaning of a failure and success.

Rest assured that trouble will pass, that hard times would not be in vain if we are going through the mental strength and strong hearts.In fact, we will be those who are mature and wise beyond our age.We just have to deal with strong and steady heart.

What’s the first we ever envisioned ambition in life, rest assured that one day we can reach it. Trust in the ability of ourselves. We just need to be patient underwent to arrive at our destination.

But believe me, if today we can not reach, and convince ourselves that we can grab it tomorrow. If you can not be achieved tomorrow, do not be pessimistic, as long as we live, it is our desire for a guard and defend, God willing, someday, we will also perform at the peak of glory as we had previously envisioned.

“During the ambition and strong desire to achieve your still awake, confident and believe that someday the goal will be within your grasp.”

Read more: http://authspot.com/thoughts/dare-to-fail/#ixzz1T0KUAYXj

And this song \:D/